Mindful Compassionate Dialogue Therapy (MCDT)

Relationship Competencies Training

This is a revolution in therapy!

This 6 month MCDT therapist training program is a gateway to cultivating your own skill and capacity to ground in love, care, and power-with dynamics. From this consciousness and with the support of the MCDT system, you will learn how to guide your clients on a clear path to thriving in relationships.

There is a map to thriving relationships, we want you and your clients to have it!

What is MCD Therapy?

The system of MCD is a scaffolding that allows individuals and couples to take the reins of their healing process. This approach is grounded in the life-serving intention which is expressed through love, care, & power-with dynamics in relationship. Clients are empowered with a detailed and practical map for creating thriving relationships.  MCD offers nine foundations for well-being and building an integrated sense of self. In addition, it articulates 12 relationship competencies for loving & collaborative connections. Once clients have the capacity to engage with these relationship competencies they will have greater capacity to thrive in life and love!

There are clients seeking this work and we look forward to growing the list of practitioners to refer them to! 

MCD Therapy can be applied with both couples and individuals. The learning is through the lens of couples therapy.

How will you & your work be changed?

Build confidence in relationship work:

Learn concrete skills and healing processes that inform/support every moment of a couples session. Rooted in both psychodynamic and behavioral approaches.

Center the heart:

While words can be a starting point, the MCD system acts as a guiding hand, helping you and your clients transition from the head to the heart, fostering deeper connections. This both a top down and bottom up approach.

Prevent burn out:

Enjoy sessions oriented around love and care while empowering clients to take an active role in their healing journey. They do the heavy lifting of tending to their own connection as they develop deeper awareness of their own psyche & skills.

Co-create your sessions:

Adopt a therapeutic approach that reduces power imbalances and barriers to knowledge, fosters a more client-centered experience, and empowers clients by helping them understand their own skills, psyche, and resources.

Enjoy live experiential learning!

Step away from the computer and books, and dive into the real-world experience of the work! Practice skills with your cohort while receiving live mentorship and coaching.

Build community:

This training emphasizes collaborative learning and community building through use of the MCD system and consciousness. Be witnessed, known, supported, & celebrated in your growth and learning.

What is included in this training?

Together we will create a safe and supportive space for you to grow personally and professionally.

  • Prior to our first in person gathering as a cohort you will be asked to engage in self-paced learning via pre-recorded introductory videos for the 12 relationship competencies and the 9 foundations. You will be invited to complete these videos with a study buddy so that you can engage in the exercises offered. If you find you want to deepen your learning, you will have access to more in-depth self-paced courses on these topics.

    This is approximately 38.5 hours of educational material.

    We will be there to offer support and guidance as you enter into this first part of our program.

  • We will be meeting one weekend a month for six months in Southeast Portland, Oregon.

    Experiential learning of MCD skills with clients. (16hr Friday and Saturday)

    Learn concrete skills for how to guide an MCDT session through experiential practices with your colleagues, role-plays, coaching, and individual support and mentorship.

    Learn bottom up and top down approaches as you practice integrating two relationship competencies as a therapist for use in practice. These two competencies will be integrated through the five dimensions of an MCDT session as described below.

    All that we do together will include care for and support of your own personhood and how you are living the consciousness and skills as well as how you transmit them to clients.

    Curriculum & Schedule

  • You will have the opportunity to build a community of practice with your peers.  Peer support pods will have an opportunity to meet once a month to practice skills and support each other in engaging from within the MCD consciousness.

  • You will have an abundance of supportive materials for each of the 12 relationship competencies! As we proceed through the six months, you will be provided with informational materials, articles, worksheets, and practice exercises that can be immediately incorporated into your practice and offered to your clients.

  • You will participate in 96 hours of in person continuing education, a certificate of completion will be provided.

    We are currently in the process of applying for Certified CEU’s and will provide an update as soon as this is finalized.

    Please note: Edits to the course material, website copy, and registration process may arise as aspect of applying for CEU's. We will provide updates and remain in relationship with applicants as these modifications arise.

  • Upon completion of this training you have the opportunity to be listed in the MCDT Practitioner Registry.  There is a growing awareness of MCD and we receive many requests from clients seeking therapists who have MCD training. 

    How are so many people learning about MCD?  Elia Paz Lowe-Chardé, the founder of MCD & Wise Heart has been offering in person and online trainings for 20 years.  She teaches MCD in Spanish in South America and Spain. Elia has offered a weekly publication called the Connection Gem for 15 years and in the last couple of years began offering a podcast which has now has over 30,000 listens.  Awareness of MCD is rapidly growing and there are now additional staff teaching MCD courses around the world.

  • Join a community of practitioners with shared values and desire to cultivate thriving relationships!

    We envision and will support a community of practice with fellow MCDT trained therapists for continued integration of the principles, techniques, & system of MCD in couples sessions.  This community of practice may include peer practice groups, practice groups with mentorship, individual mentorship, and advanced training sessions. The community may collaborate to develop creative strategies to meet needs that are not included in the list above.

    Founding Community Opportunity:

    Ava & Elia have been actively tending to and cultivating MCD Therapy since 2020. We are excited to share this work with you and to invite you into the MCD community. Upon completion of this training, we look forward to connecting with practitioners who are interested in contributing to the continued development and teaching of MCD therapy. We see this expanding greatly in the years to come!

The Guiding Principle of MCDT:

The Life-Serving Intention to connect and focus on present moment experience is central to MCDT, because this is where a powerful paradigm shift occurs. This shift is learning to trust the truth that when we attain a particular quality of connection within ourselves and with another, we naturally want to engage with generosity, creativity, and consideration of all needs present in a given situation.

Our Life-serving intention is expressed as love, care, & power-with dynamics

  • The MCD system of transformation and relating is only useful to the extent that we are occupying a deep confidence that caring for the quality of connection opens the door to a thriving life.  Our Life-serving Intention brings us into resonance with the truth that at the depth of our being we are intimately connected in the web of life and on a path of realizing that connection ever more fully.  At our core humans have the capacity for compassion, curiosity, and collaboration. From the Life-serving Intention, we serve and respond to life in whatever the present moment calls for with greater access to skill, compassion, wisdom, & agency.

    In other terms, we can say that we are expressing from a consciousness of connection.  This  is what we are dedicated to tracking first and foremost:  the quality of connection with ourselves,  in relationship with others moment by moment, and with life. 

 FAQs

  • Weekend Workshops:

    9:00am-12:30pm, 45 min lunch break, 1:15-5:45 = 8 hours total

    Schedule TBD:

  • MCDT offers a comprehensive system for transformation.  Both clients and therapists work within a shared understanding of a path toward thriving in relationship. Together you will assess for and celebrate strengths and build a shared understanding and inspiration for growth and transformation. 

    From our perspective, therapy alone is limited. We see the  need for returning to a greater capacity to connect and build interdependent relationships within the larger community context.  We were not meant as humans to do this alone!  This training holds central the importance of growing, learning, and transforming within a community. With personal growth and couples work as an entry point, we intend to support each other and our clients in moving  from the isolation that is so common to interdependence and connections.

    • Counselors, psychotherapists, psychologists, and social workers who value empowering themselves and their clients with the awareness and skills to cultivate thriving relationships.

    • Practitioners who value experiential learning and recognize that their own change process is essential to becoming an effective relationship counselor. And who are ready and excited about the idea of developing greater skill in challenging moments of connection. 

    • Practitioners who value the wisdom that comes from being centered in an expansive perspective of love, care, & power-with.

    • Practitioners would like to be a founding member of the MCD Therapy community!

  • While this training is designed for couple’s counselors, it is also supportive for individuals & couples, who have therapeutic goals oriented around relationships. 

    MCDT is valued by clients who are seeking hope and clarity about a path towards thriving in relationships.  Clients who are interested in deepening their own internal capacity to access a more expansive state of love, care, and power-with in relationship will find the skills and practices to be supportive in living a life in alignment with these values. 

    I, Ava, have found that clients who were not familiar with MCDT before arriving at their consultation are frequently inspired and leave with more hope about therapy.  The clarity of the MCD map and how they will be integrated into sessions offers a practical and concrete way forward.

  • You will be able to track and name the cycle of tragic strategies in which couples get caught and the core needs in that cycle that require more attention along with new ways to meet those needs.

    You will have increased capacity in helping a couple stay focused and move through a complete dialogue in a session while staying connected to themselves and each other with increased regulation, security, and healthy differentiation.

    You will have access to materials that support you and your clients in the assessment process and in developing practices for growth in and out of the therapeutic setting.

    You will be prepared to teach couples essential relationship skills and to provide experiential therapeutic approaches to support the integration of this learning. 

    You will have an increased integration of a consciousness of connection and thriving that will foster an embodied expression of this work from within the seat of the therapist.

    You will become an MCD Trained Therapist and have the opportunity to continue developing through phase 2 & 3 of the MCDT Certification Process.

  • The MCDT Certification program is a gateway to cultivating your own skill and capacity to live in thriving relationships grounded in the consciousness of love, care, and power-with dynamics.  It will help you cultivate an approach to therapy that supports you in modeling MCD consciousness while guiding your clients on a clear path of developing an integrated sense of self and thriving relationships.

    (Note: The certification process as outlined below is a living process.  This is the criteria for the 2026 cohort, we anticipate this process will continue to develop to meet students and clients needs in the years to come.)

    Phase 1: Complete the MCDT Relationship Competencies Training

    Upon completion of phase 1 you are eligible to join the registry of MCDT Trained Therapists and to advertise yourself and an MCDT Trained Therapist.

    The emphasis in phase 1 of the MCDT training will be on the integration of the 12 relationship competencies, application of the 5 dimensions of a session, cultivation and embodiment of the life-serving Intention, and an introduction to the foundations.  

    Phase 2: Enter Community of Practice

    (Those not seeking certification may still enter Phase 2.)

    Enter into a community of practice with fellow MCDT trained therapists for continuing practice and integration of the principles, techniques, & system of MCD in couples sessions.  This community of practice may include peer practice groups, practice groups with mentorship, individual mentorship, and advanced training sessions. The community of practice may develop creative strategies to meet needs that are not included in the list above.

    The intention of phase 2 of certification is to:

    • Deepen your confidence to anchor the consciousness and skills in challenging and varied sessions.

    • Experience the map of MCD as an inner living guide for your life.

    • Develop a fluency in how you share this work with your clients and refine the subtleties of how you provide supportive interventions.

    Phase 3: Certification

    Upon completion of phase 3 you will be a Certified MCDT Therapist.

    Our intention in offering a full certification phase is to support practitioners in cultivating the consciousness and skills to provide a predictably high level of application of MCDT with clients. 

    Phase 3 will be completed in a manner that meets both the needs of the trainers and of the student.  The trainer and student will engage in needs-based negotiation as they seek to live the consciousness and skills of MCD within their relationship.

    Certification processes in educational institutions have often been overseen from a one directional power-over strategy that has resulted in deep pain and even trauma for students whose diverse needs, wisdom, and values were out of alignment with the certification process.  We hold an intention to enter a collaborative process to meet the needs of the trainer and the therapist seeking certification.  We look forward to hearing from you, learning about your needs in the certification process, and collaborating together to find a strategy that is mutually satisfying. 

    Upon certification the MCDT certified therapist will demonstrate:

    • The capacity to  access and manage sessions from a state of loving presence in alignment with the live-serving intention.  

    • Competence in tracking and managing a session through the 5 dimensions of MCDT.

    • Competence in providing psychoeducation about the MCD map and each of its components. 

    • Capacity to guide clients through interventions that support their development of an integrated sense of self and the relationship competencies.

    Our intention is to collaborate with you to design the final certification process. In the unforeseen event that the student and trainer are unable to determine a strategy that meets both of their needs in the certification process, the trainer acknowledges the power they hold along with the responsibility to ensure that certification is managed in a manner that protects the interest of potential future therapy clients. The trainer will provide a certification plan that includes strategies to to meet the students needs as much as they are able while also meeting the demonstration requirements as listed above.

  • Yes, we will record each session.  If you miss a class we expect that you will practice the experiential activities with a practice partner before the next class.

    Please note:  To be eligible for certification we require that you attend five of the six in-person personal competencies integration sessions and five of the six in-person weekend trainings. 

  • Live attendance is required and means:

    • Arriving on time to each session

    • Attending and participating for the duration of the session.

    • To be eligible for certification we require that you attend 5 of the in-person personal competencies integration sessions and 5 of the in-person weekend trainings.

    • If you miss a class we expect that you will watch the class recording and practice the experiential activities with a practice partner before the next class.

  • You will have access upon registration up until the end of our last in-person training. After that time, you can purchase a membership to continue your access to the Wise Heart online learning platform.

  • We want to ensure a fit between what you want to learn and what we offer. Specifically, we want to know your goals for taking the program, how you will practice the skills outside of class, and that you are comfortable and aligned with our mindful experiential approach. 

    Please Note: This training is suitable for someone who has experience in experiential transformation: You already value and have experience in utilizing the study of present moment experience through modalities such as Gestalt, Hakomi, IFS, Somatic Experiencing, EFT, etc… In the future, MCDT will offer a prerequisite course in experiential therapy for therapists who need this foundational practice.

  • Upon acceptance into the program you will provide your holding deposit or full payment. You will also review and sign a Learning Agreement with participation guidelines. Once we receive this signed agreement, we’ll send instructions to access the online learning platform. A student handbook will be provided the first day of live training.

  • We will be meeting in the large residential home office of Ava Frank.  The office is located near 112th and SE Stark in Portland Oregon.  The address and directions will be provided during registration.  

    Amenities: On the ground level you will have access to the large meeting room, a breakout room for small groups, a restroom, and a small kitchen.  Should the group choose to meet outdoors during good weather, we have access to a fenced side yard.

    (Note: Please include in your application any accommodations needs you may have to ensure accessibility needs are met)

  • A minimum of 8 and a maximum of 13

  • To meet needs for inclusion, security, and predictability, refunds are only given if requested 11 days before the start of the course, so please discern carefully. If you need to cancel your registration, please email ava@mcdtherapy.com

    Ava Frank Counseling, LLC reserves the right to cancel this training 10 days prior to the first day of the scheduled training if it does not meet its minimum attendance requirement of 8 participants. A full refund will be provided should this occur.

    Ava Frank Counseling, LLC also reserves the right to cancel and reschedule any training session up to 24 hours before the first day of a scheduled training if something occurs that is beyond our ability to control. This includes, but not limited to, severe weather, national disaster, pandemic, sudden illness, or death of a relation to the scheduled trainer.

    If Ava Frank Counseling, LLC needs to cancel a scheduled training, participants will receive 100% of their registration fee in the form of a credit toward future training or will receive a full refund to their method of payment.

Cost of training

96 Hours of In-Person Continuing Education

Student Manual & Client Resources

Pay In Full

$3,300

5 Payments

$660

Meet the trainers

  • Founder of Mindful Compassionate Dialogue Therapy (MCDT)

    Jennifer (Ava) Frank, LPC began her training in Nonviolent Communication in 2005 and found clarity in this path of healing and transformation when teaching incarcerated men through the Oregon Prison Project in 2010.  Ava’s formal education and training includes a bachelors in Aviation Science & a masters in Clinical Mental Health from Portland State University.  Ava completed 7 years of comprehensive training with Mindful Compassionate Experiential Approaches including Primary Attachment Therapy, trauma training, Hakomi for individuals and couples, and Interpersonal Skills Training.  Ava is a Certified Hakomi Therapist & PACT Level 1 Therapist.  Ava teaches MCD in couples workshops through Wise Heart and has been integrating MCD in her work with therapy clients for 10 years.

  • Elia is the founder of Wise Heart which has been helping people with practical skills for personal transformation and creating fulfilling relationships for the last 20 years. Her formal training includes a bachelor’s degree in psychology, a graduate degree in school psychology (Ed.S.), 20 years of dedicated mindfulness and meditation practice, certification as a trainer in Nonviolent Communication (NVC), and three years of training with M.E.T.A. - Mindful Experiential Therapeutic Approaches. 

    Elia founded Wise Heart in 2007 and has offered training and resources to local and international communities since that time.  Through over 20 years of training and experience, Elia has created the system of personal transformation and relationship competency called Mindful Compassionate Dialogue (MCD). This system provides a roadmap to thriving in relationships by defining and operationalizing the essential aspects of creating a confident sense of self as well engaging in the consciousness and skills that facilitate living from compassion, wisdom, mindfulness, and agency.

MCD Therapy Supports Collective Human Evolution

Love is a communion of souls powered by continuous communication. Those blessed with a loving relationship naturally contribute to others. This is the progression; once we reach a critical mass of building personal trust with significant others, we reach out from that security and can work with others at our highest collective level.  

The MCD community has created sacred offerings for the world so that we might enter into a synergistic collaboration in which all needs are included. We feel a solidarity of purpose as we seek to inspire and uplift the potential in all human hearts.

 

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